Experiencing failure in a field, certainly not a fun thing to feel. This can even be a very painful thing and make us slump in life, where we can no longer have the spirit and also enough confidence to wake up and immediately rise from the failure. But do you, by accepting failure can make us much better.
Failure can be experienced by anyone, even those who already have a lot of success in their lives. That is, failure is a very human and very natural thing happens, anywhere and anytime, everyone will have the same opportunities to experience this condition. If it turns out to be so, it would be very excessive if we cursed ourselves all the time because of a failure we've ever experienced, right?
Despite failing, life is still running
There are times when we are so excited and so sure of success in a job we do. We strive for all the best we can and certainly expect a success over it. Or, we have been only a few inches from the point of success that we dream very much. However, unexpectedly, a failure arrives perfectly.
Then, does life end over the incident?
Of course not, we will still breathe, feel sad and maybe slumped over the failures we just felt. We may also feel useless figures, and will always be seen as people who can not afford by the environment around us, although the latter is not always true.
Try to accept the failure correctly, where we can see this as a lesson. Know clearly what makes us fail, so that one day we will not repeat the same thing again. Everyone must have failed, even those who have now achieved success though.
Give time to celebrate it
Sad after a failure is a very natural thing, especially if it turns out we have been working very hard not to experience it. However, there is always something going on and we have to go through for a success, including by experiencing a failure in advance at this time.
No need to be embarrassed when feeling vulnerable when faced with conditions like this. If it is necessary and makes us relieved, then crying is not a bad choice to do, especially if it makes us feel better and calm. Do things that can make us feel better and more comfortable, so that all sadness and anger will be lost. Determine the time for this, a day or two will make our condition much better.
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Get started and start over
However, do not be dissolved in the long sadness, because there will never be enough time to always mourn the failure of yourself. Immediately get off and restart what our wishes and our wishes have been. Learn from failure, so the same thing will not happen again. If we can improve ourselves well, then the obstacles in the past failure will not happen again.
There will always be many who experience failure, but one's attitude in dealing with and accepting the failures is what will then be the thing that distinguishes it from those who always fail.